Most people would admit that they love movies. They love the excitement, the suspense, the mystery and the experience of watching a movie. Movies provide as escape. They take us somewhere that is pleasurable. Much like sex.
In a recent interview about storytelling in business I was asked the question, “Why do stories work so well?” The answer I gave was a bit convoluted and cerebral, all about right-brain left-brain integration and the use of emotion and imagery. But what I would have liked to have said, and what I often think about, is that storytelling touches a pleasure center in the brain, much like sex.
When we listen to a good storyteller, it stimulates our imagination. As a matter of fact, I don’t think that our brains differentiate between the pleasurable feeling of watching a movie in a movie theater and watching the movie that is activated in our imagination when listening to a really good storyteller. The trick is to be a really good storyteller.
So the answer to why stories work so well, and why you need to become a really good storyteller, is that stories are like sex. They feel good.
Speakers who numb us with a dense PowerPoint deck of slides make us feel bad. Monotonous speaker who drone on without using any stories make us feel bad. They make us feel bad because they make it hard for us to pay attention and learn from them. If they used stories well, we’d feel good. When we feel the pleasurable sensations in our brains that really good storytelling stimulates, we pay more attention. We learn more when we’re paying attention.
So give the people what they want. Sex!
In lieu of that, take them to the movies.
The best solution however is to learn how to tell them a really good story.
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Doug Stevenson is the creator of the Story Theater Method for strategic storytelling in business. If you want to be a really good storyteller, study with Doug. Call 719-573-6195.
www.storytelling-in-business.com